Aging is not lost youth but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
Betty Friedan
I want to raise my fist in the air and holler out ‘You sing it!’ Not lost youth. I must repeat these words and engrave them in my heart. If I look at ageing as lost youth, then I am encompassed in an aura of loss, fear, regret, and longing. I need to shift my eyes from this focus and look ahead to the glorious new path that lies ahead – opportunity and strength. And with that shift of attitude I embrace a positive and optimistic outlook that appreciates the blessings that come with ageing, those that are there when I make a point to look for them.
Trisha Faye 
Apr 13, 2019 @ 15:12:44
I think your attitude is perfect as is Friedan’s admonishment. I think it’s helpful to think of aging not as a loss, but rather a growth. Another layer of sturdy bricks or stones building upon a strong foundation – each year, each experience a gift. Whether we interpret the experience as preferred or not in the moment, each one ultimately leads us to exactly where we currently are. Leaning into celebrating that opens the way for more delight to show up.
Apr 13, 2019 @ 20:56:58
I like your thoughts about building the layers on the foundation. Excellent!
Apr 13, 2019 @ 15:43:24
I love the quote. I feel like I have a duty to live out this mantra being I’ve been given these years that have been denied to so many. Our culture stereotypes old age. We can rise above this and be role models to others. Thanks Trisha! ❤
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Apr 13, 2019 @ 20:53:44
You’re right, Mary Lou. Old age has been stereotyped and its difficult to not fall into the prevalent thoughts about this stage of our lives.
Apr 13, 2019 @ 17:04:16
I need to post this quote in my home. As I face retirement in 2020 I need to remind myself of this.
Apr 13, 2019 @ 20:51:47
New opportunities, Sue…you’re already chasing them!
Apr 13, 2019 @ 20:35:22
Great quote… great way of thinking, my friend.
Apr 13, 2019 @ 20:52:06
Thanks, Cindy. Now to take it to heart!
Apr 14, 2019 @ 03:25:05
I love the Betty Friedan quote. It is so supportive of continued learning and growth.
Apr 14, 2019 @ 13:41:48
We have so many wise ones around us to learn from. Have a wonderful day Sheryl!
Apr 14, 2019 @ 21:24:50
Yes! No sense moping about something we can’t change.
Apr 15, 2019 @ 00:16:30
Very true. It’s going to happen anyway, isn’t it?